Why is a good job so hard to find?

By good I mean in my chosen field of technology, but maybe with an interesting twist.

By good I mean semi-small and NOT in cubeville. Do companies that don't pose as copycats of Dilbert and Office Space exist? They don't seem to.

By good I mean a company that values its' employees. This means to provide a reasonable market salary AND time off AND some form of benefits. Employer will also have some level of understanding that you will not be dedicated to your job for 100% of your time. Time off is time off.

By good I mean fun, moral, and privately owned with a purpose. Not simply to crank out the max profit regardless of the pain incurred. I understand capitalism, but can't a job be about a little more than the bottom line?

Oh, and how about in San Diego too? Cause that's where it would really help me.

Thanks.